Hey, beautiful souls!
We’re the Lola Ladies, and today we’ve got something on our hearts that we need to share with you. If there’s one thing we’ve learned over the years, it’s this: truth sells. And by truth, we don’t mean some vague, generic version of the truth that’s just nice to hear. Nope, we’re talking about the raw, real, unapologetic truth. The kind that makes you sit up and feel seen. The kind that makes you take a deep breath and say, “Yeah, that’s exactly what I needed to hear.”
And guess what? Truth isn’t just something you drop on your audience when you’re selling something. Truth is what makes everything in life work.
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So, what does that mean for us women?
Well, think about it. As women, we’re constantly bombarded with expectations. Whether it’s how we should look, how we should act, what we should be achieving by a certain age, or what our relationships should look like—we’re told there’s a right way to do everything.
But here’s the thing: Truth doesn’t care about expectations. Truth is messy. It’s complicated. It’s beautiful. And it’s yours.
When we speak our truth, we’re no longer trying to fit into a mold. We create our own. Truth isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being real. And the moment we embrace that, everything starts to shift.
Let’s talk about the areas of life where truth really sells:
- In Relationships: How often do we find ourselves hiding parts of who we are to please others? Whether it’s in romantic relationships, friendships, or family, we’re often taught that certain truths are too much for others to handle. But here’s a little secret: People crave authenticity. When you speak your truth—when you let people see the real you—they’ll either step up and embrace you for who you are, or they’ll step away. And honestly? That’s okay. It’s better to have people in your life who love you for your truth than people who only love the version of you they created in their heads.
- In Business and Career: Whether you’re running a business, working in a corporate job, or hustling in any other field, guess what? People want to connect with you. Not with some polished, fake version of you. When you bring your authentic self to the table, people feel it. They can see through the fluff. And let’s be real: when you’re true to yourself, your work becomes more meaningful, more impactful, and yes—more profitable. Truth sells because it builds trust. And trust? Trust is everything.
- In Personal Growth: Growth comes when we stop lying to ourselves. Truth is the foundation of change. If we can’t be honest about where we are, how can we ever move forward? You don’t need to pretend you’ve got it all together. You don’t need to have every part of your life figured out. What matters is that you show up, exactly as you are, and commit to growing from that space. That’s when the magic happens.
- In Motherhood (or Parenting): Let’s face it: parenting can be tough. There’s no manual. No “perfect way” to do it. And honestly, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. So why do we feel the pressure to pretend we’ve got it all under control? The truth is: we don’t. And that’s okay! When we’re honest about the struggles, the challenges, and the chaos of motherhood, we connect with each other. We support each other. And we realize that we’re not alone in this wild journey.
- In Self-Love: This one’s huge. For so long, women have been told to put everyone else’s needs before their own. But here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup. If you’re not honest with yourself about what you need, about what fills you up, you’re going to burn out. You need to take care of your mind, body, and soul. And that means being truthful about your limits, your desires, and your worth. The more you honor your own truth, the more you radiate confidence, love, and energy that others are going to notice.
But here’s the most important part:
Truth isn’t always easy. It’s not always comfortable. But it’s always, always worth it.
When you start telling the truth, you’re not just selling yourself short by trying to fit in; you’re claiming your own space. And that’s powerful. When we’re true to ourselves, we unlock our highest potential. We become magnetic. And that’s what we need to show up as in the world—authentic, unapologetic, and completely ourselves.
But here’s the thing: Many times, we distance ourselves from our truth—not because we don’t know it, but because we’re stuck in the loop of pleasing others or weighed down by shame. Maybe you’ve been told your truth is “too much.” Maybe you’ve been conditioned to believe that dimming your light is the safest way to exist.
Whatever it is that’s holding you back, worry not. We’re committed to supporting you as you reclaim your voice and step into your most authentic self. Aligning with your true nature isn’t just empowering—it’s liberating. And if the abstract side of this feels overwhelming, we’ve got you covered with practical tools.
✨ Our Cycle Tracking Mandala Workshop is designed to help you tap into your natural rhythms, reconnect with yourself, and build self-trust. You can find it [here].
✨ If you’re looking for personalized support, count on Lola’s expert coaches:
- Laura Maldonado, a professional life coach who helps women from all walks of life find their voice and purpose.
- Lore Torsani, a doula, postpartum transition coach, and mom-mentor who specializes in guiding women through the transformational journey of motherhood.
You don’t have to navigate this alone. Truth sells, yes—but more importantly, it sets you free. And we’re here to help you live it. 💛
With love and authenticity,
The Lola Ladies
P.S. Remember: the world needs your truth, just as much as you need it. So what are you waiting for? 🌟